Happy Halloween - or "You Can't Keep Spirit Down"

So the amount of handwringing I have seen, for weeks now, about "You can't cancel Halloween!" has been extreme.




What I have seen this weekend (other than some minivans shuttling the kids between the few places on Summit that had their lights on tonight) has been extraordinary.


Patrick, Beatrix, Ximena and me listening to Halloween music and drinking hot chocolate in a crazy long line for the "Haunted Car Wash," which was short yet enjoyable, but the real fun was the togetherness.


Lining the hallway with spooky dolls late last night to surprise Beatrix this morning.


Beatrix putting together bags of candy to deliver to her friends (on the way to the kind of anticlimactic but somehow fun sheriff's drive-through today.)


Brutus in a bumblebee costume at Saint Paul Brewing this afternoon.


Our traditional get-together at Mike and Jenn's, though smaller and more distanced this year.


Multiple neighbors stopping by with Halloween treats for Beatrix.


Carving pumpkins and watching "The Addams Family" last night, and seeing "Hocus Pocus" with Heath and Elyse last week.


The countless stories of neighborhoods getting together with special bags of candy, and chutes, and catapult, and other ways for groups of people to make Halloween more personal, more united, and more special than I have seen it.


If what we can make of this is unity rather than disparity, we might get through it.



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